Ungkapan “budaya hookup” telah ditinggalkan sepanjang waktu, tetapi apa artinya? Lebih penting lagi, bagaimana hal itu membentuk hubungan anak muda, harga diri, dan harapan sosial?
Dalam episode Screenagers Podcast yang dirilis kemarin, saya memiliki persimpangan dengan Dr. Lisa Wade, associate professor di Universitas Tulane, penulis American Hookup, dan persimpangan bias, seksisme dan peneliti jangka panjang kesehatan mental. Kami membahas realitas penghubung budaya di kampus -kampus universitas.
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